Sunday, August 5, 2012



.Relationship Building tips;

The Basic relationships we have with others are solely dependent on the relationships we share with our own self. Our relationship with the outer world depends on our perspectives and thoughts. When we harbor unconditional love towards ourselves, we tend to project the same to the outer world.
 One of the most significant factors that affect relationships is our attitude. Our passions, insecurities, fears behavior, doubt and desires have a huge impact on the relationships we share with others. So it is necessary to change your perspective towards life and relationships so that it is easy to handle different aspects of life.
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 In order to build a positive relationship with others, it is important to build a positive relationship with yourself first and foremost.. To build a positive relationship with yourself, it is important to build self esteem and self respect. It is also important to let go of your various past hurts and resentments to move ahead being stress free in life.


So Do you want to build your love nest, a harmonious house, a haven on this earth?


1.  Treat your relationships is like a bank account.
2.  Learn to Deposit in your relationship’s current  account ,small or big  daily deposits of deeds, pleasant actions involving your partner’s likes, avoiding dislikes Try to Keep relationship fresh, if  you feel stressed out ,go for walks ,hand in hand ,discover new places,eataries,create new opportunities ,avoid monotonies of life.
3.  Learn to do small sacrifices, start giving complements to each other often.  The goodwill created by you in the relationship will come back to you in circle.
4.  Write love notes, keep talking, do not stop talking after quarrels, make bridges, amend relationship; you know one stitch in time saves nine.
5. Touching with hands is a nonverbal positive “Therapy“. Express your love in physical touches, give each other massages, and back rub, head massage.
6.  Adopt these small but miraculous tips in your daily life and see your relationship flowing like a cool breeze, like a flowering tree, now this new relationship will give you a good fit like your old jeans. 
7.    You cannot change your attitude or perspective towards life in a single day. But one should hope  to find a solution to all your problems related to social and personal relationships by   focusing on various aspects that will help you to identify the gaps in your social life and design very effective and intelligent strategy to manage your social life effectively.

8.    By adopting these tips , you will be able to connect with people in spite of  your introversion or shyness and  increase the social confidence of people who are shy.
9.   You can develop your various relationship strategies to find out  and alter your behavioral patterns to attract people and to build positive relationship with people on the basis of mutual respect. It will be easier day by day by working on your” self “to deal with difficult relationships that include friends , relatives and colleagues and building positive relationships in a social circle.
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10. Having a compassionate and loving relationship at home and work is the key to a happy, healthy and successful life. Maintaining a relationship for a long period of time requires patience, love, understanding and compassion. Life can be quite challenging and stressful from time to time. Work pressure, family stress and financial problems can be overwhelming at times. We tend to become depressed, angry, frustrated and sad in life but all these negative emotions can be altered extensively.

11.  Failed relationships can cause anxiety and loneliness in life. There are many ways to improve personal relationships at home and at work. Compassion for others and patience are the two most fundamental  elements required for a strong bond of relationship.

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